Hi all, I know a lot of these posts are about the 3rd book but I am rereading crossfire again and I am  stumped by this quote so...Â
 what does this quote mean.
“You forget who submits, Eva,†he said gruffly. “I’ve given up control for you. I’ve bent and adjusted for you. I’ll do anything to keep you and make you happy. But I can’t be tamed or topped. Don’t mistake indulgence for weakness.
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Is he saying he submits or eva. When he gave her theDom  ring he said she is the submissive, but now is he saying he submits? also is he telling eva that she's an indulgence to him,or vise versa?