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GiGi

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  1. Hi Nrock, I agree with your statement. It is one thing to tolerate a situation and another to accept it. I just hope that Cary gets it together and finds that person who truely accepts him for who he is. Everyone deserves love and acceptance.Â
  2. Hi Rogue, I agree with your theory and assessments. I am not sure that there is anywhere the Brett Eva friendship situation can go. She is now married and committed to a man whom she loves desperately and passionately. Let's just hope that Eva and Gideon don't continue to punish one another (directly or indirectly).Â
  3. Hi Sharonm745, It is apparent that you are an incredibly creative individual! You have given me a lot to think about! Thank you!
  4. Hi Claudine, I agree with you.  I think that if photos from the first wedding exist, they should remain private and for Eva and Gideon's eyes only. The press will have oodles of photos from the second "staged" wedding. That should be more than enough to statisfy all of the lookie-loos out there.Â
  5. I agree!!Â
  6. From your mouth...I hope that is the case for Cary and Tatiana! Please!!!Â
  7. Hi Sharonm745, Your theory is plausible and hopeful. I hope they work it out. Your comment about Jean Francois noticing something being different with Gideon and Eva is really interesting and hopefully astute. I hope it works out that way.
  8. OMW hillarious!! Now if only one or two of the characters could smoke "pot"...maybe they could be included in one your studies...for research!   You are still studying the effects of marijuana on the human brain and the link to mental illness right?Â
  9. Hi Nrock, I agree with you on that. It was stated that Trey wanted Cary to be gay, but Cary is bi-sexual. I don't know how a relationship could work when one of the party's cannot accept you the way you are. I hope that either Trey comes around and accepts Cary or that Cary finds someone who really loves him, just the way he is, flaws and all.Â
  10.  Hi EvaSep, That's great.Â
  11.  Hi Jennpenn926, There have been some amazing photos posted here courtesy of the ladies. Wow!!
  12.  Hi Fsumom, I really hope that whatever conversation that Gideon and/or Eva has with Corinne, it is the one final one (with a psychiatrist who can help her if she freaks out) and then be done with this situation once and for all.Â
  13. I think that is a real shame.  Eva has been giving Monica every opportunity to change and she hasn't. It is a really sad situation overall. I hope she gets it together.Â
  14. Hi Sharonm745, Your theory is plausible. I think that there is too litle information to decide one way or another (for me anyway).   What I struggle with is the whole "Hugh" thing. Who had contact with Hugh? Did anyone actually see Hugh raping Gideon and if they did, then why on earth wouldn't they have called the police?!  From what little was written about Hugh; after Gideon's abuse finished, Hugh went on his happy way and had at least another DECADE to continue to rape and molest other unsuspecting children/victims.  That scenario is beyond horrifying to me!  If someone saw Hugh raping Gideon, why wouldn't they seek outside help? Wouldn't Hugh be a danger to society?  The whole concept of "misguided attempts to help" hit quite close to home. I have attended private schools all of my life. What I didn't know about my grade school experience (for a long time) was that the school I attended had a pedophile teaching us. Unbeknownst to me, said pedophile had a preference for boys and would find ways to gain access to as many kids as he could in either small groups or isolated incidences.  We students were often invited to go on exclusive ski trips with said teacher and from a kid's perspective at that time (which I was and did attend several of those ski trips), we all had a fun time. What I didn't realize at the time was that this "teacher" was in the process of trying to select his victims. He was starting to "test the waters". He would have "wrestling" matches with the boys in front of everyone and his hand would "accidently" slip down to where he would "cop a feel" of private parts. He would of course appologize in front of everyone and many wouldn't have given it a second thought, but what this person was doing was trying to assess how far he could get with the male child and that if that child would make a compliant victim.  I never gave what happened a second thought as a twelve year old girl, but as a woman of fourty-two, I would have to ask what business did this person have to wrestle with an eleven year old boy? What business did this person have to take children to his home by himself?  Many parents and my parents included, didn't think about us going skiing because there were 5 or 6 of us girls going together (in addition to all of the boys) and all of the parents knew one another. Everyone felt that this was a safe situation.  I ran into an old teacher and fellow alumna a while back, and she had told me about my old teacher being a pedophile. When I asked her what was done about the teacher, she said that the teacher had been transferred from one school to ours (and subsequently to several other schools), but he was never fired. She said that some of the teachers rallied around after-school events and many tried to make sure that they were present when this "teacher" offered to stay and coach sporting events. Asides from that, not much else was done.  I also spoke to an old friend and classmate and she confirmed that her brother was one of the few lucky ones. Her brother had a "wrestling" match with this teacher and the teacher touched his private parts. My brother's friend got up and left immediately. The next day, he quit every sport that teacher was supervising. He told his mother and his mother complained but nothing was ever done.  The thing is, NONE of the teachers ever called the police. From all of the schools that this person taught at, no one called the police. No one alerted Children's Aid either. No one had the courage.  Why? Parents and teachers would complain individually  to the school principal directly and to the school board and yet still nothing was done. No one ever thought to call the police or the Children's Aid Society either. Why? They felt that by complaining to the school board and to the principal, they had done enough. How wrong they were.  Some people (parents/teachers) used the excuse that if they called the police that they would be ex-communicated from the church and others (parents) were just glad that their kids came out relatively unscathed, but what about the kids who were seriously damaged because of those experiences? Who looked out for them?   No one stopped to consider the kids that were being abused or the children that this "pedophile" would gain access to in the future (future victims). Thirty something years later, this "teacher" still works at the Board of Education (doing administrative work) and still hasn't been fired or criminally prosecuted. This person has destroyed dozens and dozens and dozens ( I could go on for thirty years) of lives. If that isn't scre***d up then I don't know what is.  I have shared a part of my background with you ladies in the hopes that someone ( who might be reading this) might take something from my experiences. It isn't enough to simply remove a child from an abusive situation. Someone has to open their mouths, pluck up the courage and call the police or Contact The Children's Aid or CPS in the US. Someone has to remember the 30 years worth of kids who were abused and not make the same mistakes over and over again.  I would only ask the ladies who have children how they would feel if they unknowingly sent their children into a school environment, where there was a pedophile working and that none of the parents or the teachers had contacted the police or CPS/Children's Aid. Thank you for taking the time to read this.  GiGi
  15. Hi Sharonm745, You have definately given me something to think about. I really hope we get our Corinne answers sooner rather than later. Thanks for the chat.Â
  16. Hi GLH, After reading the books I have learned one thing for sure: Nothing is for sure! The only person who know's is Sylvia and thus far, her lips are sealed!  I personally don't have a huge conspiracy theory about Detective Graves other than to say, that this woman most likely wants to advance her career (as many people do) and will do anything to do that (as some people do). Now to what lengths this woman is willing to go to, I don't know. Her bahaviour thus far has been suspect to me.  All of the "accidental" run-ins and such are all crap. She definately has an agenda and it isn't just about solving a murder...  Now as for Deanna, I think that it is just a matter of sour grapes for her. She threw herself at Gideon and got burned because he lost interest in having s** with her while he was with her. It must have been a huge blow to her ego. What Gideon did was so hugely wrong!  But in her for revenge, I think that Deanna may have unwittingly screwed herself. If the book tells us anything about Gideon it is that he is a shrewd and meticulous negotiator! I think that in "getting" an exclusive from Gideon, Deanna would have had to sign her life and her potential first born away. Now the question remains; Will Deanna honour the terms of "said" contract in order to get an exclusive on Gideon and Eva's wedding. I am not going to even guess about that one. Thanks for the chat.Â
  17. Hi Gabri, Have a great day!
  18. Hi Golfergirl, I had a quick question please. Would Corinne taking psychiatric meds be responsible for her miscarriage or would the intervention treatment (administered by the emergency department) be responsible for Corinne's miscarriage? Your help with this question is greatly appreciated. Thanks in advance.  GiGi
  19. Hi Julie, Seriously though, I am all for feeding Anne Lucas the crow pie! Â
  20.  Hi Julie, All the theories are potentially plausible.
  21. Maybe Anne Lucas can wind up being the one with egg on her face.  Â
  22. Hi Julie, Alone, by Heart is a great song.
  23.   Maybe we can feed Anne Lucas several crow pies! Let’s make sure that Arnoldo doesn’t make them!
  24. Hi Nathalia, Could it be that the Modelling Agency owes him money? Modelling Agencies make pay advances or sometimes even loan money to their models if they have completed a modelling shoot, but usually they get paid a bulk of the money owed them when the Agency settles up with the Client.
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