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And just for that ( I wanted to give SD a break) I am more cemented to create a change.org petition and demand that she now release that specific chapter (just because as again until I read last page/word in the Series I so not trusting SD) and have them not unnecessarily delay subsequent books in this series!

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Gigi

When I talk about this book- and I've been told I go on about it too much!. I love it for the story of 2 broken lovers trying to have a relationship, heck the sex is awesome, we would all love a Gideon in our lives!

But it's not just about the sex. The abuse storyline had my stomach in knots, the angst and heartbreak just made theses characters so real.

After Sylvia's revelation I felt deflated. Not poor Gideon, hasn't he suffered enough.

Perhaps the murderer was the pizza delivery guy, cos Nathan didn't give a decent tip. Ever hopeful. X

Hi Julie54,

After I stopped rolling around on the ground from laughter I agree with you!  You ladies renew and restore my faith when it faulters just a bit!  I too am keeping my fingers crossed that this just some ugly cruel ruse that we the ever faithful loyal "anyone other than Gideon did it" club have had to endure. :)

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Gigi.

I'm a 54 year old widow. I've read these books so many times, my daughter s starting to question my sanity!

I glad you lot don't think I'm mad. Lol

 

Hi Julie54,

There is always safety in numbers! :)  If you are crazy, then I am crazy too!  Crazy for Gideon and Eva to have a happily ever after!  :) :) :)

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Gigi.

I'm a 54 year old widow. I've read these books so many times, my daughter s starting to question my sanity!

I glad you lot don't think I'm mad. Lol

I've started calling people Gideon and Eva in conversation and don't catch thing until later. Lol. I find all kids is pets, possessions and name them accordingly. Lol. I may start callings boyfriend Gideon as his nickname, oh gosh. Lol.

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And just for that ( I wanted to give SD a break) I am more cemented to create a change.org petition and demand that she now release that specific chapter (just because as again until I read last page/word in the Series I so not trusting SD) and have them not unnecessarily delay subsequent books in this series!

Hi KiMa, 

I say go for it!  I am all for change!  I also agree that it is complete agony and torture to have to wait for the release of books.  I understand that there may be delays or schedulling problems that can't be helped but this wait has be ridiculous!  I hope that the publishers and all the higher ups who have been in control of this past situation have learned from their past mistakes and that nothing like this will happen in the future.

 

If not then I highly suspect that there may be a huge outcry from Sylvia's faithful fans! :)

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Gigi

I have never been a member of a book club before, or read a book that has affected so much.

To be able to discuss and dissect it has been amazing. Chatting to you all blew the storyline wide open for me,and it became something more.

I'm so glad there is going to be a fourth and possibly a fifth book.

Hoping we are keeping Sylvia entertained

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I've started calling people Gideon and Eva in conversation and don't catch thing until later. Lol. I find all kids is pets, possessions and name them accordingly. Lol. I may start callings boyfriend Gideon as his nickname, oh gosh. Lol.

Hi KiMa,

You are too hilarious! :)  If your boyfriend is a good sport and is ok with you nicknaming him Gideon, then I say that guy is a keeper! :)

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Gigi

I have never been a member of a book club before, or read a book that has affected so much.

To be able to discuss and dissect it has been amazing. Chatting to you all blew the storyline wide open for me,and it became something more.

I'm so glad there is going to be a fourth and possibly a fifth book.

Hoping we are keeping Sylvia entertained

 Hi Julie54,

I am absolutely sure that we have kept Sylvia entertained.  That woman could have sold tickets and made millions from the "show" we the fans have put on for her (and for us)! :)

 

I can personally recall a time or two when I had steam coming out of my ears from one discussion or another. :)  I am also sure that many others may have had similar experiences.  For those who didn't have the "steam experience" I am completely sure that they sat back and enjoyed the show. :)

 

It is brilliant unscripted entertainment! :)

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KiMa

In the throes of passion, calling your boyfriend Gideon could be awkward! Lol

I did feel sorry for Sylvia, as she took a lot of stick from fans on fb.

I need to warm him up to the nickname. Lol

I did feel sorry for her but now since her outburst ummmm she is a bit naughty.

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Hi Gigi

It's just gone midnight in the UK.

Having too much fun chatting to you guys, to go to bed yet.

It's good that everyone can put their theories across, no matter how trivial.

With all our theories Sylvia might have decided to use them in books four and five. Perhaps we should ask for commission!! Lol

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And just for that ( I wanted to give SD a break) I am more cemented to create a change.org petition and demand that she now release that specific chapter (just because as again until I read last page/word in the Series I so not trusting SD) and have them not unnecessarily delay subsequent books in this series!

You and Your Petition....!! :) I'm all for it..!!

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Hi Gigi

It's just gone midnight in the UK.

Having too much fun chatting to you guys, to go to bed yet.

It's good that everyone can put their theories across, no matter how trivial.

With all our theories Sylvia might have decided to use them in books four and five. Perhaps we should ask for commission!! Lol

 Hi Julie54,

I see that you are burning the "midnight oil" (ok, so I couldn't resist one tiny little pun :)), but I think we would all make millions ourselves from all our contributions.

 

I don't think that any theory is trivial, each one has the potential of being true.  If anything, I think each one of use has had the opportunity to hone our skills in figuring out which of all the theories presented may have been the plausible.  For me that is a good thing.

 

I also think that you are absolutely correct.  If Sylvia has been paying attention, she may have gotten a really good idea or two for another book.  I think that there has been some incredible dialogue amongst the members.  One would only hope that may have inspired Sylvia. :)

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Yes it appears he will do anything for Eva even kill. This upsets me because they already has so much baggage and then add a murder? yes Nathan deserved it but couldn't she write his death as Gideon using self defense instead of a calculated murder.

It 'was' done in defense... The defense (and protection) of Eva. Gideon was defending the little girl who wasn't able to, the teen who suffered a miscarriage, the adult with horrific night mares. According to Det. Graves Eva was in danger as Nathan was stalking her and he would have eventually caused mortal harm to Eva.

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It 'was' done in defense... The defense (and protection) of Eva. Gideon was defending the little girl who wasn't able to, the teen who suffered a miscarriage, the adult with horrific night mares. According to Det. Graves Eva was in danger as Nathan was stalking her and he would have eventually caused mortal harm to Eva.

Hi Peachies,

I think that the only flaw to that arguement is that Gideon planned Nathan's murder step by step by step.  I don't see how that could be considered as self defense.   If Nathan had approached Eva and Gideon stepped in to protect Eva, then absolutely, but given all the circumstances; nathan staying at one of Gideon's hotels, Nathan attempting to blackmail Gideon, Monica and Stanton, Cary being attacked, Gideon discussing something with Monica, Gideon pushing Eva away and starting to be seen with Corinne socially, throwing the Kingsman Vodka Party, the kitchen fire at the hotel and Gideon's 30 minute absence all add up to premeditation to me(again, until I read it for myself on June 4th I will believe in Gideon's innocence).  What do you think?  What does everyone think?

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Hi everyone,

Something else just struck me as odd.  How come Detective Graves was confirming to Eva that she was in immediate danger and that Nathan would have killed her.  Why was Detectove Graves being so "helpful" and forthcoming with information?   Can we the reader really trust what she was saying or was she trying to get a reaction out of Eva for her own purposes that being the investigation of Gideon for Nathan's murder?  What does everyone think? 

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Just a thought.

But if it wasn't for the excerpts that have been posted, with Gideon and Eva playing a game of cat and mouse with the cops. Perhaps Graves was being genuine about Eva going back to Gideon and living HEA. Just dreaming! That sort of ending doesn't make good reading or book sales. Lol

That detective wants Gideons scalp. Think she is after promotion that woman!

I'm no police expert, but even I know they don't close a case after several days.

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Hi everyone,

Someone in an earlier post asked what some of the behavioral signs of sexual abuse are.  I went back and did a little research and have categorized them into two age categories; behavioral signs and of children who are under the age of 8 and for those children who are over the age of 8 through to adolescence.  I hope this helps. 

 

Category A:  Behavioral Sign of Sexual Abuse in Children 8 Years of Age and Under:

  • Crying spells
  • Nightmares or night terrors
  • Excessive fear
  • Fear of sleeping alone
  • Hyperactivity
  • Eating disorders
  • Thumb or object sucking
  • Bed wetting
  • Soiling of oneself
  • Language regression
  • Sexual talk
  • Sexual acting out or posturing
  • Excessive masturbation
  • Behavioral changes at school (grades dropping, acting out, fear in school, trouble concentrating)
  • Excessive fear of men or women
  • Sadness or depression
  • Suicidal thought
  • Extreme nervousness
  • Hypochondria

 

Category B:  Behavioral Signs of Sexual Abuse in Children 8 Years of Age through to Adolescence

  • Fear of being alone
  • Peer problems
  • Frequent fights with family members
  • Poor self-esteem
  • Memory problems
  • Intrusive recurrent thoughts like flashbacks
  • Excessive nervousness
  • Excessive guilt or shame
  • Mood swings
  • Overly compliant behaviour
  • Suicidal thoughts or gestures
  • Self-mutilation
  • Hyper-alertness
  • Substance abuse
  • Avoidant or phobic behaviour
  • Sexual acting out
  • Refusal to change into gym clothes
  • Violent fantasies

After having looked at both of these lists, I have to wonder how on earth Monica or Elizabeth Vidal did not notice any of these symptoms in their children?! Both Eva and Gideon demonstrated a lot of these symptoms as a result of the abuse that they had to endure.  I am surprised; that no one in these children’s lives didn’t notice any behavioral changes.   I am simply flabbergasted by how far reaching the level of neglect was for these two. 

 

Yet again, it is clear that neither Monica nor Elizabeth Vidal will ever be nominated for Mother of the Year. I really hope that Sylvia provides the reader with some kind of insight as to what was going on in both Eva and Gideon’s lives. There is so much information that is still missing for me.  Having this kind of information would help me to understand how Gideon’s personality was formed and what makes him tick.  What does everyone think? 

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Morning Gigi

It was me who asked he question. Being a mother of 2 girls I would notice immediately if their personalities changed. As we have said, Monica and Elizabeth were never going to win prizes for parenting.

Perhaps it might soften the blow for you, regarding why Gideon killed Nathan, if Sylvia explains about his early years.

I still think there was something afoot regarding his dads death, was he murdered and did he find his body, which contributed to his problems. Wish it was June now.

By the way. Thank you for the info above, very interesting.

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Hi everyone,

Since I’ve already gone half of the distance of posting the behavioural signs and symptoms of childhood sexual abuse, I figure I might as well go the rest of the way and post the physical signs and symptoms of sexual abuse in children.

  • Sexual behavior or knowledge that's inappropriate for the child's age
  • Pregnancy or a sexually transmitted infection
  • Blood in the child's underwear
  • Statements that he or she was sexually abused
  • Trouble walking or sitting
  • Pain or discomfort in the genital/anal area
  • Redness, swelling, discharge or bleeding of the genital/rectal area
  • Abuse of other children sexually
  • Hemorrhaging or petechiae (tiny ruptured blood vessels that appear like little red spots) in the child’s mouth.
  • Round purple/red type bruising at the back of the child’s throat.
  • Difficulty swallowing
  • Hyperactive spitting and rinsing of the child’s mouth and hands.
  • Direct aversion to having the child’s mouth or body touched.
  • Stomach pains, headaches and other pains of unknown origin.
  • Excessive gagging or hyperactive gagging response when an object is placed in the child’s oral cavity
  • Vaginal or anal trauma (including vaginal/rectal tears, fissures, fistulas, infections or discharge)

I hope this helps anyone who might need this information. 

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It is obvious that Gideon was abused in the library of his parents house, because of a thought Eva made. "Standing in a rush, Gideon picked me up and carried m to the couch. H dropped me lengthwise on the cushion, then hauled my hips up to rest on the armrest, arching my spine. I eyed him up the length of my torso. Why not just fold me over and me from behind". This was obviously the position Gideon was raped in.

Gideon like Eva had no one to confide in even his mother didn't believe him. Monica came through in the end, but only because of a miscarriage. We need to know how Angus helped him, when did he become aware of Gideons abuse. My money's on Chris Snr as the abuser. But hey! I was wrong about Monica, so probably wrong again.

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I was thinking that Monica was VERY self-absorbed prior to her finding out about what Nathan did to Eva which is probably why she didn't recognize changes in Eva's behavior.   I guess that she was early to mid thirties range around the time of the abuse?

 

I think that finding out what happened to Eva was a sentinel moment for Monica-- a wake-up call as to her failings as a  mother/person.

 

I think that this series is a love story but also it is a story about redemption----no matter what failings/sins they had done in the past---they can turn their life around and become better people.  I think that this series is a love story and it is a story  about the different character's journey to become better people.

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New snippet is coming this today!!!! Sylvia said on Twitter and Facebook "Snippet #11 in T-Minus six hours ...." That was four hours ago, so roughly we're talking somewhere around noon U.S. Eastern Time.

 

This is the link to the webpage where snippets (and snapshots too) get posted: http://www.sylviaday.com/category/snippet/

 

Favor to ask for anyone who manages to get in right away before the server goes down temporarily because of the rush of legions of fans trying to view the snippet when it's still hot off the press, so to speak ..... could anyone who does manage to view it right away copy the text and paste it here, so that we can all read what the snippet says.

 

I'm going to try to do the copy-and-paste myself if I can see the snippet right away. But I know some other regulars here have a lot of luck getting into the snippet/snapshot page early as well.

 

UPDATE: SNIPPET CAME AROUND 9:45 A.M. (Either a time zone difference or my fuzzy math was off) KiMa and Kirsten both got it right away and got the text posted in the other busy threads today, including the snippet thread and the Gideon killed Nathan spoiler thread. Both ladies rocks!

 

Here's the text:

 

 

Gideon cupped my face in his hands and kissed me, our flavors mingling. “Thank you.â€

 

What are you thanking me for? You did all the work.â€

 

There’s no work involved in f****** you, angel.†His slow smile was pure satiated male. “I’m grateful for the privilege.â€

 

I sank back onto my heels. “You’re killing me. You can’t be that gorgeous and sexy and say stuff like that. It’s overload. It fries my brain. Sends me into a meltdown.â€

 

His smile widened and he kissed me again. “I know the feeling.â€

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